Adventures of Chaos and Mayhem

Never thought I’d do it

August 16, 2007 · 9 Comments

This morning at 9 AM, I met with the principal of the local public elementary school.  Yes, I know.  Gasp.  I was considering public school.

But, a lot has been going on lately.  The move from TX.  Leaving Amanda and her family.  Moving in with my dad.  And my marriage separation.  Things have not been as honky-dory as I wish.  Believe it or not, I am stressed.  My dad and I get along.  Most of the time.  A couple times he stepped over the line with my kids.  He quite clearly disagreed with my rules, and was rude.  We quarreled.  Then of course, while we weren’t talking to each other, he stepped in dog poop.  Yes, my dog pooped in his bathroom.  And it wasn’t the first time.

It didn’t help that I’ve been off my Celexa for far too long.  I was easily upset.  But with everything going on.  Maybe everyone is right.  Maybe homeschooling it just too much.

And when I called PA Cyber, they informed me that open enrollment ended July 31st.  But I was more than welcome to put her on the wait list and see if she was accepted.  Now, does that make much sense?  It takes 10 days for enrollment to be completed.  And this is a CYBER school.  Not an in person school.  Even if they count the first day of school as August 27th, shouldn’t the last day of open enrollment be August 17th?

Anyway…  My choices were to either go and fill out my affidavit and paper work to homeschool the kids, or to enroll them in public school.  With all the things going on at home, the thought of paperwork and reporting on my homeschooling just seemed like too much.  But at least I do have The Weaver Volume 1.  And I figured I could round it out with the second half of A Beka’s Language Arts and Math from last year.  After all we only finished half.  And it was ahead of what they did in the public school.  And I think if I was in Texas I would do it.

But I’m not.

The principal met with David.  She talked with us.  She said that she thinks David would do well in AM Kindergarten, then leave for his services in the special education room.  He would have lunch, recess, phys ed, music, computer lab, and art with the all day Kindergarten kids.  He’ll get library time with an aide with him.  Between you and me, if she had said anything else, I would have left and been completely justified in homeschooling.  But as it is, maybe it’s for the best.  Maybe.  If the little ones benefit, and David does well, and Celia grows and overcomes some fears, then it will be worth it.

Celia remained adamantly against school.  She also wanted NOTHING to do with the bus.  She was still moping when the principal asked how David will handle the bus.  Remember, there are no seatbelts aboard.  She said that the first few rows are reserved for kindergarteners.  She also said that Celia and David will be riding together to and from school.  Celia perked up.  Then the principal asked if I thought Celia would be interested in sitting with David on the bus.  She overheard and jumped up.  Celia informed her that she most definitely wanted to sit with David.

Things were looking up.

From there I took Celia and David to Wal-Mart.  David picked out a Spiderman 3 backpack–trimmed in blue of course.  A blue lunch bag.  A blue sandwich box.  A Spiderman 3 folder.  A Spiderman 3 thermos.  Celia still has a pink backpack in excellent condition.  She picked out a  pink heart lunch bag.  A pink sandwich box.  A hot pink polka-dot folder.  A pink floral thermos.  Since she’s going into second grade, she also got a pink pencil box, and ten floral pencils.  David needed new sneakers.  He tried on a bunch and settled on a nice black and white pair.

Needless to say, they’re officially excited about the start of school.

Categories: Autism · Celia · David · Marriage · Therapy · homeschool · parenting · school

9 responses so far ↓

  • rowdyrodi // August 17, 2007 at 12:37 pm | Reply

    Hang in there. Sounds like a rocky road being well traveled. I think that if you are feeling like HS would just be too much right now then you are probably right. Who would benefit from a mom/teacher who wasn’t up to the task of HS’ing? Going with your gut is probably the best in this situation. The kids are excited and if they are happy going in it should make the transition a bit easier on everyone.

  • Melissa // August 17, 2007 at 2:46 pm | Reply

    Hey girl! Wow, its sounds like since your move things have been nothing but a whirl wind. I am sure your decision was a hard one and filled with prayer. It’s not easy letting go and trusting your children’s well being or their education into someone elses hands. I believe that God leads us and a good evaluation on you not being able to do HS well right now, the family situation as well as your children’s excitement is a good indicator that you have made the right decision.
    When do they start? Monday? Mine do…I am not sure who is more anxious about Kris starting- me or Jaron. He is such a great big brother…wants to protet him from everything. We will be praying for C and D that they do fantastic and that they adjust to the new routine wonderfully.
    Love ya girl!

  • FXSmom // August 17, 2007 at 4:02 pm | Reply

    It’ll all turn out okay. You’ll see a good reason for this someday. Just stay in the teacher’s faces and you’re babies will do awesome. Good luck :)

  • beartwinsmom // August 17, 2007 at 8:59 pm | Reply

    Wow.. a lot of changes going on there, dear. Deep breath and try to take it one at a time. Are you sticking with HS’ing, or are you going to give the public school a try? Like FXSmom said, keep in the teacher’s faces (but in a nice way) LOL. Communication is crucial.

    I’m rooting for you!

    ~Michelle

  • iamweiser // August 18, 2007 at 12:18 pm | Reply

    Thanks, all! School here is starting Aug 27th. They consider that early, but compared to FL, TX, and IL, it’s really not. Celia was timid about a male teacher, but has gotten over it. They are both VERY excited. My dad has just counseled me to call the bus company and request a 2nd bus stop on the road–right in front of my house. Since we live on the same road as the high school, students tend to drive down our road before and after school. Also, one mom recommended I join the PTFS which will get me in the school more and get me to know the teachers more. No matter what, I intend to stay informed.

  • amandaleggett // August 20, 2007 at 1:55 pm | Reply

    My babies are going to school…on a bus!! WAAAAH! :(

  • Kevin Leggett // August 20, 2007 at 2:06 pm | Reply

    Well, it is not all that bad. I think that public school does have its place. Caedmon went to public preschool and it was good for him. While homeschooling is usually the best option, a well grounded public school can work. Especially if you supplement the whole experience with homeschooling when the kids are home.

  • Amy // August 21, 2007 at 9:44 am | Reply

    Hi Liza!
    I found your email with your blog’s link and read through it this morning. (I’m at a new job and was looking for way to procrastinate, lol). Anyway, you have certainly gone through many, many changes and I wish only the absolute best for you and your kids!! I’ve quit teaching special education, but I’m always hear if you wanna email me about questions you have about your kids’ public school experiences. As a former public school teacher, I find it hard to completely bash them – there are good public school teachers out there – I was one of them. However, it’s difficult to do the things you truly want to do when you have a constant barrage of red tape, angry administrators, and never-ending PAPERWORK. You are a smart and caring momma who will make sure her kiddos are well-cared for in the public schools. Of that, I am sure (-:
    Keep in touch!

  • mommyfranklin // August 21, 2007 at 4:24 pm | Reply

    They’ll do great! Just remember that their schooling doesn’t end when they come home each day. And don’t back down on the teachers if they aren’t doing their job! You are the momma and you know best!

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